The Thomist 68 (2004): 343-73 SAINT AUGUSTINE ON CONJUGAL LOVE AND DIVINE LOVE PERRY J. CAHALL Ohio Dominican University Columbus, Ohio N O PATRISTIC THEOLOGIAN has had a greater impact on Western Christianity than St. Augustine of Hippo. Wherever one goes in Western Christian intellectual tradition Augustine has been there already and has often laid the foundations for further reflection on the topics he addressed. One facet of St. Augustine's wide-ranging thought that has proved to be foundational for Western Christianity is his theology of marriage and sexuality. David Hunter has aptly written, "No Christian writer has exerted greater influence on the development oi the Western theology of marriage than Augustine. " 1 The popular view is that Augustine has bequeathed to Western Christianity a highly negative view of conjugal life. Much modern scholarship has criticized Augustine for a supposed negative view of human sexuality and consequently a deficient view of marriage and marital love. 2 Several scholars have accused Augustine of 1 David Hunter, "Augustine and the Making of Marriage in Roman North Africa," Journal of F.arly Christian Studies 11.1 (2003): 64. 2 Examples include: David F. Kelly, "Sexuality and Concupiscence in Augustine," in The Annual of the Society of Christian Ethics, ed. Larry L. Rasmussen (Waterloo, Ontario, Canada: Council on Study of Religion, 1983), 81-116; David M Thomas, Christian Marriage: A Journey Together, Messages of the Sacraments5, ed. Monika K. Hellwig (Collegeville, Minn.: The Liturgical Press, 1983), 55; James A. Brundage, Law, Sex, and Christian Society in Medieval Europe (Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 1987), 80-82; John Mahoney, The Ma/Ung of Moral Theology (Oxford: Clarendon Press, 1987), 45; Paul Ramsey, "Human Sexuality in the History of Redemption," in The Ethics of St. Augustine, ed. William S. Babcock, Journal of Religious Ethics Studies in Religion 3 (Atlanta: Scholars Press, 1991), 343 344 PERRY J. CAHALL being opposed to sexual attraction, sexual intercourse, and sexual pleasure. 3 Some claim that his view of sexuality may even have been tainted with latent Manichaeism. 4 Others have accused him of maintaining a functionalist view of sexual intercourse according to which the conjugal act is legitimated only by procreation and has no value as an expression of love between the spouses. 5 However, a number of scholars have pointed out positive aspects of Augustine's theology of marriage. 6 In particular, several 115-45. 3 John T. Noonan, in his celebrated book Contraception: A History of Its Treatment by the Catholic Theologians and Canonists (Cambridge, Mass.: Harvard University Press, 1965), said that Augustine's understanding of marriage possesses Manichean and Stoic influences (166). Andrew Greeley has said that married couples in Western Christianity and especially in Roman Catholicism are living in the shadow of St. Augustine's negative view of sexuality ("Sex and the Married Catholic: The Shadow of St. Augustine," America 167 [1992]: 318). Theodore Mackin maintains that despite what Augustine claimed, for him "intercourse itself was sinful" ("Augustine on the Nature of Marriage," in Sexuality, Marriage, and the Family: Readings in the Catholic Tradition, ed. Paulinus Ikechukwu Odozor [Notre Dame: University of Notre Dame Press, 2001], 173). Uta Ranke-Heinemann has leveled one of the most virulent attacks on St. Augustine's view of marriage and sexuality in her book Eunuchs for the IGngdom of Heaven: Women, Sexuality, and the Catholic Church (New York: Penguin Books, 1991). She calls Augustine's conversion "a disaster for married people" (78), and says that Augustine was "the man who fused Christianity together with hatred of sex and pleasure into a systematic unity" (75). 4 For examples of this critique see Bernard Haring, Free and Faithful in Christ, vol. 1 (1979), 512-14; Thomas C. Fox, Sexuality and Catholicism (New York: G. Braziller, 1995), 22; Vincent J. Genovesi, In Pursuit of Love: Catholic Morality and Human Sexuality (Collegeville, Minn.: The Liturgical Press, 1996), 116-18. 5 Eric Fuchs has contended that "although he was more sensitive than others to the social dimensions of the couple, [Augustine] was unable to conceive of the possibility that sexuality could hold tenderness, friendship, spirituality, and this lack of insight was very influential on the later tradition" (Sexual Desire and Love: Origins and History of the Christian Ethic of Sexuality and Marriage, trans. Marsha Daigle [Cambridge: James Clarke & Co., 1983], 117). Theodore Mackin contends that Augustine left no middle ground between conception and capitulation to sexual lust for couples to engage in sexual intercourse as an expression of intimacy ("Augustine on the Nature of Marriage," 172). John T. Noonan maintains that Augustine saw procreation as the purpose of marriage (Contraception, 151) and that he saw "selfless love" as having a very small part in marriage (152). Uta Ranke-Heinemann holds that for Augustine "intercourse is a culpable act and needs justification: a child" (41), and she goes on to call Augustine a neurotic who "radically separates love and sexuality" (Eunuchs for the IGngdom of Heaven, 76). 6 Examples of this scholarship include: Emile Schmitt, Le mariage chretien dans /'oeuvre de Saint Augustin. Une theologie baptismale de la vie conjugale (Paris: Etudes Augustiniennes, 1983); Augustine Regan, "The Perennial Value of Augustine's Theology of the Goods of CONJUGAL LOVE AND DMNE LOVE 345 have noted the importance of friendship and love in Augustine's theology of marriage,7 highlighting a more personalist dimension of his thought on marriage than he is often given credit for. Building on this scholarship, I have argued that the three goods of marriage that Augustine delineated (procreation, fidelity, and the sacrament) are inseparable aspects of marital love that present us with at least a limited analog to the love of the Trinity. 8 I have also argued that Augustine's writings on marriage should be read in light of his Trinitarian theology, in which we find some of his most deeply held theological convictions. 9 In the present article, I wish to show how Augustine's theology of the Trinity provides a means for elaborating his vision of conjugal love, since for Augustine the life of the Trinity is the source of all true love, including the love between spouses. Marriage," Studia Moralia 21 (1983): 351-78; John R. Connery, "The Role of Love in Christian Marriage: A Historical Overview," Communio 11 (1984): 244-57; Cormac Burke, "St. Augustine and Conjugal Sexuality," Communio 17 (1990): 545-65; Donald Burt, "Friendship and Subordination in Earthly Societies," Augustinian Studies 22 (1991): 83-124; Robert}. O'Connell, "Sexuality in Saint Augustine," in Augustine Today, Encounter Series 16 (Grand Rapids, Mich.: Eerdmans, 1993), 60-87; David G. Hunter, "Augustinian Pessimism? A New Look at Augustine's Teaching on Sex, Marriage and Celibacy," Augustinian Studies 25 The Bond of (1994): 153-77; Carol Harrison, "Marriage and Monasticism in St. Friendship," Studia Patristica 33 (1997): 94-99; Willemien Otten, "Augustine on Marriage, Monasticism, and the Community of the Church," Theological Studies 59 (1998): 385-405; Mathijs Lamberigts, "A Critical Evaluation of Critiques of Augustine's View of Sexuality," in Augustine and His Critics, ed. Robert Dodaro and George Lawless (New York: Routledge, 1999), 176-97. 7 Donald Burt, Friendship and Society: An Introduction to Augustine's Practical Philosophy (Grand Rapids, Mich.: Eerdmans, 1999), 83; ibid., "Friendship and Subordination in Earthly Societies," 83, 95; Connery, "The Role of Love in Christian Marriage," 245; Hunter, "Augustinian Pessimism?", 160; Otten, "Augustine on Marriage, Monasticism, and the Community of the Church," 398, 404. 8 Perry J. Cahall, "The Trinitarian Structure of St. Augustine's Good of Marriage," Augustinian Studies 34:2 (2003): 223-32. 9 Perry J. Cahall, "Saint Augustine on Marriage and the Trinity," Josephinum Journal of Theology 11.1 (Winter/Spring 2004): 82-97. Denis Faul suggested such a contextualization of Augustine's theology of marriage some thirty-seven years ago when he said that Augustine's theology of marriage and sexuality should be viewed in light of his deepest theological insights, including those regarding the Trinity, creation, the image of God in the human person, and humanity before the fall ("Saint Augustine on Marriage: Recent Views and a Critique," Augustinus 12 [1967]: 166). 346 PERRY J. CAHALL I maintain that Augustine articulates sound principles and perennial insights for understanding and living out the mystery of married love in all its facets. Furthermore, I believe that a contextualized reading of Augustine's works on marriage shows us that spouses are called in their conjugal love to participate in the divine order of love. An indispensable part of this context is his Trinitarian theology. Although Augustine himself did not draw an explicit link between his theology of the Trinity and his theology of marriage, 10 we can allow these different strands of Augustine's thought to inform each other, and thus arrive at a more complete picture of conjugal love. In particular, implied and in many ways assumed in Augustine's writings is a vision of conjugal love that is nourished by and participates in the mystery of Trinitarian love. This vision applies to all areas of conjugal life, including the spouses' conjugal embrace. Thus, Augustine shows modern man that sex is for more than mere pleasure. The conjugal embrace is called to participate in divine love. I. AUGUSTINE ON SEXUAL DESIRE In order to understand God's design for sex and marriage, Augustine referred to man's prelapsarian state as outlined in the Book of Genesis. Augustine held that before the Fall all human passions and emotions would have been ordered according to the ordinance of reason and would have been subject to the control of the will. Adam and Eve would have experienced sexual desire as completely subject to the control of their reason and will. 11 10 That Augustine did not draw this connection explicitly should not be surprising, since he was not a systematician in the modern sense of the word and since most of his writings, including his writings on marriage, are produced in response to specific controversies and questions. Nonetheless, there is a consistency in his thinking that is the result of certain core theological principles. Peter Brown, in one of the appendices to the new edition of his celebrated biography of St. Augustine, admits that Augustine's thought is more "of a piece" than he had once thought {Peter Brown, Augustine of Hippo: A Biography [2d ed.; Berkeley: University of California Press, 2000), 490). 11 DecivitateDei14.23 {writtenaround418/419) ;DeGenesiadlitteram9.3-4;10 {begun around 401 and completed around 415); De gratia Christi et de peccato originali 2.35.40 {written in418); De nuptiisetconcupiscentia 2.7.17; 2.22.37; 2.31.53 {written around41921); Contra Iulianum opus imperfectum 5.16 {written around 429/43 0 and left unfinished at CONJUGAL LOVE AND DIVINE LOVE 347 Peter Brown says that, according to Augustine, "In Adam and Eve's first state, sexual desire was not absent, but it coincided perfectly with the conscious will: it would have introduced no disruptive element into the clear serenity of their marriage. " 12 Augustine saw that this condition changed radically after the Fall: a comparison of Genesis 2:25 and Genesis 3:7 shows that Adam and Eve only experienced shame at their nakedness after the Fall. 13 It is crucial to realize that Augustine maintained that in our present fallen state our passions tend towards disorder as an effect of original sin-a sin which he did not see as having been motivated by sexual attraction. 14 The first sin of humanity was an act of disobedience to God, and as a result of it men's and women's desires no longer obey them without effort. Rupturing the original order of God's creation has resulted in an interior disorder for man. 15 Augustine saw sexual lust as a prime example of the disorder present in humanity's postlapsarian desires, 16 evidence of the. fact that when Adam and Eve ceased fully to obey God's will out of love their desires ceased fully to obey their own wills. 17 It is for this reason that Augustine refused to give unqualified praise to sexuality as humanity now experiences it. 18 the time of Augustine's death). All dates for Augustine's works are taken from Augustine through the Ages: An Encyclopedia, ed. Allan D. Fitzgerald (Grand Rapids, Mich. : Eerdmans, 1999). 12 Peter Brown, The Body and Society: Men, Women, and Sexual Renunciation in Early Christianity (New York: Columbia University Press, 1988), 402-3. u De civitate Dei 13.13; 14.17; De Genesi ad litteram 9.10.16; De gratia Christi et de peccato originali 2.36.41; De nuptiis et concupiscentia 1.6.7; Contra duas epistulas pelagianorum 1.16.32 (writtenin421); Contraiulianum4.16.82 (writtenin421/422); Contra Iulianum opus imperfectum 3.74; 4.36. 14See De Genesi ad litteram 11.41.57; Contra Iulianum 6.22.68. 15 See Mathijs Lamberigts, "Julien d'Eclane et Augustin d'Hippone: Deux conceptions d' Adam," trans. J. van Houtem, in Collectanea Augustiniana. Melanges T. ]. Van Bavel, ed. B. Bruning, M. Lamberigts, and J. van Houtem, Bibliotheca Ephemeridum Theologicarum Lovaniensium 92, vol. 1 (Leuven: Leuven University Press, 1990), 404-5. 16 Ibid., 405. 17 Peter Brown, "Augustine and Sexuality," in Augustine and SeXuality: Protocol of the 46rh Colloquy (Berkeley: Center for Hermeneutical Studies in Hellenistic and Modern Culture, 1983), 10. 18 Robert Innes, "Integrating the Self through the Desire of God," Augustinian Studies 28.1 (1997): 76. PERRY]. CAHALL 348 In discussing the state of fallen humanity Augustine wrote at length about different forms of desire or concupiscence, 19 among which he included carnal concupiscence (concupiscentia carnis). The idea of carnal concupiscence, or desire of the flesh, comes from Galatians 5: 17, where St. Paul speaks of the flesh lusting against the spirit. Augustine used this term to refer to the tendency of all our sensitive appetites, including sexual desire, to escape the control of reason. 20 In his disputes with his Pelagian adversary, Julian of Eclanum, Augustine took great pains to distinguish between carnal concupiscence that consists of a disordered desire for any sensual pleasure (including sexual lust) and sexuality as such with its attendant pleasure: "You do not know, or pretend not to know that the quality, the usefulness, and the 19 For a good, brief discussion of different kinds of concupiscence that Augustine posits see Mathijs Lamberigts, "Augustine, Julian of Aeclanum and E. Pagels' Adam, Eve, and the Serpent," Augustiniana39 (1989): 407-13, SeealsoJamesB. Weidenaar, "Augustine's Theory of Concupiscence in City of God, Book XIV," Calvin Theological journal 30 (1995): 52-74; Weidenaar also provides a good discussion of the distinctions Augustine makes when speaking about concupiscence (although his discussion differs somewhat from that of Lamberigts). Weidenaar makes the valuable observation: "We must first keep in mind that Augustine's primary goal in formulating most of his thoughts about concupiscence ••• was not to provide a Christi:>n ethic of sex. He wrote in a context in which the Pelagian ideas about free will and sin seemed to be undermining the importance of the need for grace" (67-68). A more extended discussion of Augustine's concept of concupiscence and the evolution of his understanding ofit can be found in Fran1;ois-Joseph Thonnard, "La notion de concupiscence en philosophic augustinienne," Recherches Augustiniennes 3 (1965): 59-105; and Emile Schmitt, Le mariage chritien dans /'oeuvre de Saint Augustin. Une tbeologie baptismale de la vie conjugale (Paris: Etudes Augustiniennes, 1983), 96-105. A very helpful work that deals with Augustine's concept of concupiscence and the different types of concupiscence that he delineates is Jon T. Beane, "The Development of the Notion of Concupiscence in Saint Augustine" (Ph.D. diss., University of Notre Dame, 1993). 2 Contra Iulianum 4.14.74; See Contra Iulianum 4.13, 14 where Augustine addresses carnal concupiscence at length. See M Lamberigts, "Some Critiques on Augustine's View of Sexuality Revisited," Studia Patristica 33 (1997): 156. Lamberigts has focused specifically on reevaluating the debate between Augustine and Julian of Eclanum over the concept of the concupiscence of the flesh (concupiscentia camis). See also Lamberigts, "A Critical Evaluation of Critiques of Augustine's View of Sexuality," 176-97. Another article that lends support to Lamberigts's insights is G. I. Bonner, "Libido and Concupiscentia in St. Augustine," Studia Patristica 6 (1962): 303-14. See also John Rist, "Appendix 3: Augustine and Julian: Aspects of the Debate about Sexual concupiscentia," in Augustine: Ancient Thought Baptized (Cambridge: Cambridge University Press, 1994). For a good discussion of the differing views of Augustine and Julian regarding the original state of human existence see also Lamberigts, "Julien d'Eclane et Augustin d'Hippone: deux conceptions d' Adam." ° CONJUGAL LOVE AND DIVINE LOVE 349 necessity of sensation through a sense of the body are not the same as lust [libidinem] for this sensation. " 21 He clearly distinguishes between sensual pleasure and carnal concupiscence (carnis concupiscentiam) that includes sexual lust when he says that "pleasure can also be honest ... it is concupiscence of the flesh or lust [libidinem]which is shameful. " 22 This statement alone is ·enough to show that Augustine did not have an inherent bias against sexual pleasure. It is true that he commented little on how this pleasure contributes to or factors into a couple's relationship, but this is a modern preoccupation that Augustine should not be faulted for failing to address. Julian of Eclanum tended to equate carnal concupiscence, sexual lust, and sensual pleasure, and therefore he refused to admit that carnal concupiscence and sexual lust were results of the Fall. Instead, Julian maintained that carnal concupiscence was necessary in order for procreation to take place and thus held that . it is a naturally good part of the human condition. 23 In contrast to Julian, Augustine notes that in this life sexual intercourse is never completely free of the disordered effects of carnal concupiscence. 24 It is this insight-that human sexual desire is now such that it resists the control of reason and will-that causes many modern theologians and others to revile Augustine. On this point Augustine can be faulted for not properly distinguishing between an act directed by reason and an act performed according to reason. 25 Saint Thomas Aquinas would 21 Augustine, Against Julian [Contra]ulianum], trans. Matthew A. Schumacher, Fathers of the Church 35 (Washington, D.C.: The Catholic University of America Press,1957), 4.14.65 (PL 44:769-770). See also Contra Iulianum opus imperfectum 4.69. 22 Augustine, De nuptiis et concupiscentia 2.9.22 (CSEL 42:274): "potest uoluptas et honesta esse ..• camis concupiscentiam uel !ibidem, quae pudenda est" (translation mine). I think Roland Teske's translation of this passage is imprecise, which reads: "pleasure can also be morally good •.• concupiscence of the flesh or sexual passion ••• is something to be ashamed of" (Marriage and Desire, Works of Saint Augustine 1/24 [New York: New City Press, 1998], 2.9.22]. I believe "lust" rather than "sexual passion" is a more accurate rendering of /ibidem. 23 Contra Iulianum 4.3.21; 4.14.65. 24 De nuptiis et concupiscentia 2.32.54; Contra Iulianum 3.21.43; 5.9.37, 39. 25 Laura L Garcia provides an excellent discussion of this distinction in "Christians and the Joy of Sex," The National Catholic Bioethics Quarterly 3:2 (Summer 2003): 259-61. PERRY J. CAHALL 350 later make such a distinction, pointing out that certain acts, like sleeping, although they are not directed by reason at every moment can be entered into according to reason. 26 This same distinction would apply to the act of sexual intercourse, which although subject to emotional and physical reactions and responses that are not directed by reason can still be undertaken according to reason. However, even though Augustine failed to make this distinction, surely his insight regarding the tendency of fallen sexual desire to resist the control of reason and will deserves to be acknowledged. Such an acknowledgment could go a long way to cultivating a more realistic view of sex in a day and age that is obsessed with sex, encourages satisfying any and all sexual desires, and manufactures unrealistic expectations surrounding the satisfaction of these desires. II. A GOOD CONCUPISCENCE OF MARRIAGE AND SEXUAL INTERCOURSE While Augustine wrote more frequently about negative forms of concupiscience, toward the end of his life, in his debates with Julian of Eclanum, he also posited several types of positive concupiscible desire, such as a natural desire for spiritual goods (concupiscentia spiritus), 27 including the goods of wisdom (concupiscentia sapientiae)28 and happiness (concupiscentia beatitudinis). 29 He even allowed for the possibility that a good type of carnal concupiscence or desire of the flesh could have existed in paradise, one that would have followed the dictates of the wills of the first spouses. 30 He also spoke of a good Theologiae II-II, q. 153, a. 2. 4.14.72; Denuptiisetconcupiscentia 2.30.52. Lamberigtshassaid that the essence of good concupiscence for Augustine is "a longing for God's gift of love" ("Some Critiques on Augustine's View of Sexuality Revisited," 157). 28 Contra Iulianum 4.3.17; De nuptiis et concupiscentia 2.10.23; 2.30.52. 29 Contra Iulianum opus imperfectum 4.67; See also Contra duas epistolas Pelagianorum 2.8.17; 2.9.21 where Augustine references a desire for good things (cupiditas bani). 3 °Contra Iulianum 5.5.22; Contra Iulianum opus imperfectum 2.42.45; 3.177; 5.13.16; 6.14.22. 26 Ibid.; See Summa 27 Contralulianum CONJUGAL LOVE AND DMNE LOVE 351 concupiscence (bona concupiscentia) in marriage that sublimates the desire for sensual pleasure to the desire for offspring. 31 In Epistula 6*, a letter from late in his life, Augustine posits the possibility of a good carnal concupiscence: Therefore this concupiscence of the flesh, if it existed in paradise so that by means of it children were begotten to fulfill the blessing of marriage by the multiplication of human beings, was not the same kind of carnal concupiscence we experience now, when its movements covet indifferently what is licit and illicit.... But if concupiscence had existed in paradise, it would have to be of a different type, in which the flesh would never have lusted against the spirit [Gal 5:17]. 32 In this same letter Augustine speaks of a "concupiscence of marriage" (concupiscentia nuptiarum) that would have existed in paradise to maintain the peaceful love of the spouses. 33 Regarding this concupiscence of marriage Augustine writes, "What Catholic would call the carnal desire present in marriage [concupiscentiam nuptiarum] the work of the devil, since by means of it the human race would have been propagated even if no one had sinned. "34 He goes on to distinguish several aspects of this concupiscence of marriage: Because of this error they [the Pelagians] do not distinguish the concupiscence associated with marriage, i.e. the concupiscence of conjugal purity, concupiscence for the legitimate engendering of children, or the concupiscence of the social bond by which each sex is tied to the other, from the concupiscence of the flesh which hankers after the illicit as well as the licit indifferently and through the concupiscence of marriage which uses it well is restrained from the illicit and permitted only the licit.35 What is significant about this passage is that each aspect of the marital concupiscence that Augustine is delineating represents a desire for one of the goods of marriage that he distinguished: 31 Contra Iulianum 5.16.63; 6.16.50. Robert B. Eno, Fathers of the Church 81 (Washington, D.C.: The Catholic University of America Press, 1989), 8 (CSEL 88:38) (written around 420) 33 Ibid.,7 (CSEL 88:36). 34 Ibid., 3 (CSEL 88:33). 35 Ibid.,5 (CSEL 88:34). 32 Letter [Epistula] 6\ trans. 352 PERRY J. CAHALL offspring (proles), fidelity